Sometimes I wonder if I should have keep mum about my failed relationship. Yeah, I feel better with people around u, encouraging u, tellin u 2 move on, feel good about yourself...blah blah...etc

But why do I get e feeling tat i'm being joked abt? Am I petty? Or just thinking too much?

Why do people always try 2 link me up with stuff tat doesn't concerns me?
Yeah..."I'm single, but i'm nt tat desperate 2 get settle with just any gal!"

Example, new gal join my department. So? Seriously I don't really care if she's 18 or 35. Whether she's single or attached? This and that! "I DON'T CARE!!"

So what if she's single and fits everything tat I look 4 in a gal? I always believe in tis, "Don't shit at where you eat!!" Don't want to change the only place where I can have some peace (provided my boss and seniors don't give me shit) into a place of unpleasant memories if things goes wrong....

Shitty thoughts....Argh

dream....

i not much of a dreamer...at least most of the time i can't remember what i dreamt of...
But last night, i had the longest dream, although i only slept 6 hr but the dream was like the whole day!! i guess time doesn't exist when you are in dreamland....
what did i dreamt about? I dream about her. Yes, someone whom i should be forgetting... But everything is so vivid.

She was wearing the most beautiful white top that i had gotten her... her long flowing hair, which she haven't dyed and permed before. With a short demin skirt...she look prefect!!! You look really beautiful, Darling!! That what i said to her in my dream.
When we were together, i never really commented much on how she looked, how she dresses... she was always beautiful in my eyes. But i guess all women need some kind of assurance, doesn't matter if it necessary or not... wahahahaha

Time spent when we were in each other's arms...just close to each other, flesh to flesh...i could just smell her hair...everything was so clear...it didn't seem like a dream at all...What we chatted about was not important...what matter was we were in each other's company...she would just lie in my arms, although that will make my arm numb, but i didn't mind! IF that's wat she wanted, i will do that for her....I didn't want to wake up....

But....

I asked myself why am i having this dream??? Isn't it all over? Wasn't i supposed to totally forget that she ever existed in my life? The pain that now she's gone kept surfacing to my head. i don't understand why...

Life is starting to get bored i guess....


But why i miss her is not because i'm bored or whatever... I just miss the times we had...
If only....there was a time machine... if only...

GSS

Great Singapore Sale....
Have anybody found any great bargains?? Please let me know okay?? I admit, i'm a shopping freak...
I'm a guy who like to shop...but like most guys, we shop specifically.(at least that what i do)
but as the years pass by, seems like there isn't much stuff to look forward too. And the stuffs that are on sale, still require lots of Vitamin M, which i don't have a lot :( That SUCKS!!!

Anybody can tell me how to get more Vitamin M, Think i really need more of that!!! Wahahahahaha
Most people buy ToTo or 4D....but i don't do that! Hmmm...looking at the amount of money my parents throw in every month in hope of winning something... really turn me off.... I think, over the year the amount probably add up to a 10 of thosand...and what are the return they got back?? Probably less then 10K.....

Looking forward to the diving trip...

Lake Toba...Wonder how is the place like...Heard my tution teacher talked about it before... It's supposed to be a very beautiful place. But with all the recent earthquake and the rumor that Lake Toba might actually erupt after being dormant for so long...
Hmmm.....exotic place laced with danger.....sound pretty cool...

This had been a long week…one more day till my off-day…
Looking forward to it…

The new gal has finally appeared!!! Well, she looks like a simple gal… very decent looking gal… Long hair, slim body… not those “WOW” may I know you type of gal… didn’t have much chance to talk to her….
Well, the good thing is Huiyi now has a partner….

The smurf village just added another smurfette…. Wahahaha

Apple Computer Inc. just announces on Monday that they are going to switch over to using Intel processor, instead of the good old IBM PowerPC processor… Mixed feelings in all the forums that I been too. Is it for the best or worst? I guess only time will tell!

Do you...

have a classmate that you hate???

Well, i have!!! Things were pretty alright in the first year that we were together...
To the rest of the class, we were like this two being from another planet...
We had great rapport, we can do presentation stuffs really well! (i admit he's a notch above me)
But lately...it's kinda annoying with somebody like him around me...

Things that he say really annoy the hell out of me....
eg.
"Dont you think it's a waste of time getting the diploma??"
"So are you still at that mindless job that doesn't require you to do any sort of thinking?"
"Why is the Maths Lecturer teaching so slow?"
"Why can't i get exemption for this module?"

First to answer all this question of yours!!!!
If getting this diploma is such a waste of time, why are you even here? Quit the course and go do something else!!! If you are so smart, why don't you complete all your crap in the first go instead? Why are you even with us??? C'mon!!! Be realistic, just because you are smarter than most of us in the class, doesn't entitle you to be saying all this crap!!!

Secondly, what i do is totally none of your business!! Yes, i admit my job is crap...unlike you, who is doing some stuff that's related to what we are studying. So??? Just mind your own bloody business... Ever heard the saying "Silence is gold?"

Thirdly, Yes, the maths lecturer is slow in his teaching, why? Because most of us are slow learners. If we are so smart, we won't be attending the night classes already!!! If you think the lecturer is slow, take my advice then, come later....maybe you can reach the class at about 9pm??? 1/2 hr before the lesson is over and when you are here....just shut your trap and do the tutorials quietly...OKAY??? F$%K

Lastly, Why can't you get any exemption for the modules?? Well, i don't know! Maybe you can just approach the head of the department and have a good discussion with him/her...hopefully he/she can give you a answer!


WTF!!!! Just because you are the first person i spoke to on the first day of the course, doesn't mean i have to listen to all your stupid whining...Grow up...and get a life!!! Can't you get the message that i'm trying to keep away from you??? I don't want you to sit beside me and start to make snide remarks of the other classmate, and yes, i do want to listen to the lecture!!!



Don't think he will get to read this...but i just want to get it out of my system....

So anybody had such a classmate?? How the F$%K do you deal with them???
ARGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! STUPID ASSH#$E!!!



CAn't sleep....don't know why, maybe it's the cup of teh ping i had during dinner...
And i got to be up at 6.30 later. :(



KKK, you didn't miss anything, although you couldn't make it out for the PC Show...it's crap...
Let's hope the Comex at the next quarter will be a decent one...

And my new friend didn't turn up...she had something on... Disappointed? A little...
But so what?? Just a friend.... Hope whatever she had on, went fine...

my day...

3rd of Jun is a special day...if things didn't went wrong.
It's marks the 6th anniversary of a relationship.... but reality always differ from what you think and what you want...
Everything changes...the only thing that doesn't change is change itself.


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Sort of cleared up the problem at work after talking to JJ, guess what she said was right afterall. what difference does it make???
None!! And i might have better opporunities if i stay at where i am..
That is one thing out of my head....

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When is Father's Day har??? Is it this weekend or the coming one??? Anybody can tell me please!!!


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Went to swimming at Yishun Safra, my first time there...pretty decent setup, looks like i'm going to visit there more often, when i got the at 8am, there wasn't much people around expect a LOT of AUNTIES!!!! WTH!!!! Really make me sian -_-'
What to do? I guess all the bikini babes are still in the beauty slumber. Wahahahaha....
The good thing is, with nothing much to see, i could actually concentrate on actually finish my targeted 20 laps...
Read the morning papers by the poolside, had a go at the powerful jacuzzi jet...really shiok...
Went to wash up at around 9.30 to get ready for the my massage at the Raintree Spa which is also located in Yishun Safra....
Been a long time since i had a nice massage... Which remind me of a ad i saw in the paper...
Tiger Airways is offering tio fly to Bangkok or Hatyai @ only S$118 and it includes accomadations!!!
Looks like a trip back to either place is not a bad idea!!! Anybody interested???
Personally i refer Hatyai....things are cheaper there, And i can stock up on Adidas stuffs when i'm there...
It' all geninue and it's dirt cheap!!!!

I WANT TO GO!!!!!!


Okay back to the massage. After i got changed into my short, the massager took me to the room, she introduced, "This is our couple room, next time you can bring your girlfriend with you!" I was like, "Erm, Sorry auntie! I got no girlfriend leh, you want to introduced one to me har?" And the auntie replied, "The front desk manager (the gal whom i registered with before i got changed) lah, She's still single!!" I was o_o
Wah nowadays they not only massage, they also provide match-making services leh....really multi-tasking leh!!!
Anyway, back to the massage, it was pretty good, been a while since my last massage at Great World City...Felt refreshed when i came out of the room...Took a rest, drank some tea and left the place...

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Brought lunch home, for my mum and me, mum is down with fever and she's coughing really bad. And it seems like there's nothing i can do to ease her pain... Hai...i'm a lousy son...

Day ended with the night class in campus!!! Finally got my iBook setup to surf wirelessly!!!! Which means i can....surf in campus anytime i want!!! WAhahahahahahaha...

Looking forward to tomorrow, going to the PC Show 2005 with JL and KKK, meeting LL up to jalan jalan...and finally meeting a new friend of mine...Hopes everything turn out the way they should be....

Sad...

Why? the new gal didn't turn up again....Seems like i'm having lots of expections of the new gal...wahahahaha
What if she doesn't turn out to be what i expect her to be? So what if she turns out to be a out of this world angel???
What does it got to do with me? Why am i so looking forward??? WHY????


No lah..... just hoping to see something new, beside all the new GUYS around me...wahahahaha

Faced with a dilemma.... work related dilemma.... How? Should i even consider what PR said???
:( It will be something new to try, and i guess the pressure won't be so heavy, as i won't be dealing with something very expensive... and a under a better boss... Wahhhhhh....

Thanks to JL, there's something to look forward too this coming Aug....
So if everything turns out as plan... we will probably return with the proper certification right???

So let's see.....

Proper certification = able to dive

A person who is able to dive is = diver

I am from the RSN = Navy

So when you combine both, you get.....









Navy Diver.......


Wahahahahahahahaha..........




think too much liao......

I hate HER!!!

Argh....going to have a nervous breakdown soon...
What is HER problem??? Why Must she have to be so KAN CHEONG about everything? If people want to delay giving us the lot, SO BE IT lah!!!! Why do you have to make a mountain out of a molehill??? Are you really so Free???
C'mon lah... Why don't you just sit down and relax a bit. Maybe you won't be having all this leg aching problems!!!

I just can't stand HER style of working... Yes, i know that we have to be responsible when it comes to work. But not like this!!!

I really hate it whenever i have to see Her at the start of the week!!!! And now it seems like i have to see Her throughout all her working days. Oh...F&#$!!!

Now i know why most people doesn't really like HER... not only does she make comments that is based on her own gathering... I finally understand why people always ask me to be careful of what i do... You might get shot in the back, if you are not careful!!!

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHH..... And seems like i have to bear with all this until next year, Jan, seriously can't see how i can do that.



School was disappointing....the new girl didn't turn up... maybe she's shy??? Wahahahahaha...
Great to see all the guys back in campus... Looks like we have to grind our teeth through this semester!!!!
6 xiao liao (kids, at least they look kiddy to me) join our class for this new module, Microcontroller...
What's worst?? The 6 newbie are all guys....WTF!!!!

As for the new lecturer, he's from his Thailand, as i suspected... Can't really get anything he's mumbling about. Luckily i had my bound notes with me... Looks like this module is easy enough... just know to understand the concept, and i think i will be fine...


Looking forward to today.... maybe the new girl will actually turn up... Just hope that she is what all the guys expects!!! If not?
It's gonna be another boring semseter....

After tonight....

i'm going back to school, offically school has started...
no more time to watch TV, and i'm going start walking like a zombie along the company's corridors again... hahaha
okay, i will try not too... wait i kena "mark" by YC....wahahahahaha

Everything is going fine... no more public hoildays in sight until August.... looks like it gonna be a long start to the term...

Anybody interested to catch the LOTR Marathon with me??? I hope there are still places...last time i check, there are still a number of vanceies...
Invited a friend whom i think is a LOTR fanatic...but she just couldn't make up her mind... women...fickle-minded!!! :(

Hai... thinking of doing some stuffs that can drastically change my lifestyle... don't worry!!! I'm not going to do durgs or something crazy....

Just wanna get out of this boring life....work, go home, eat, watch tv....surf net, check mail....feel so trapped!!!!!

Help me!!!!

Wahahahaha....

Q: Why do people save??? For the future?? For getting stuff they want? i always ask myself why i save... I just can't came up with an answer.... whhahahaha....

today.....busy busy

Today is my second off day... Wanted to sleep in late and get myself prepared for the FFBL match tonight...
Alas i wasn't able too... Waken up by my mum at around 8:45am, she was asking me if i had got the free radio clock that came along with the new cordless phone she brought at Courts recently. I told her, "No, i haven't went to redeem it yet!", "Can i do it next week?" She replied, "the offer is only until the 31st of May, and they are only open till 1.30pm today."

Looks like i have to go down then...but i'm so freaking tired!!! I only slept at 5am... after talking with LL on the phone...

Headache.... Don't think i can rely on my brother to go... he's so damn LAZY!!!!! I hate that....

I lazied for half an hour, washed up, called the place to confirm if they are really open and if there is any more radio clock for me to redeem, don't want to waste the trip down if it's all given out.

The lady sounded rather nice.... Left my name with her, so that she will know that i'm the guy who is without a warrenty card.

Took the mrt to Orchard....walked to the building, reached the 3rd floor where the office is.... the recepetion was empty...
The lady came out, looks like a twenty plus year old gal to me, had a really sweet voice, bad complexion though, tried to hide it with make-up...

She was really sweet... I think i should have ask her for a number or something... But i didn't!! I just hestiated... And i left...

I don't know why i had these sort of thoughts... Maybe i'm getting desperate.... Maybe i just want any Mary, Nancy or Lucy...
I don't know...
Why do i fall in love with every woman i see who shows me the least bit of attention???

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Met up with JR at Orchard again, we are going for dinner together before we head to the FFBL match at Unity Sec Sch.
Just walk aimlessly from the mrt, through Wisma, through Taka... headed to Herren....
And JR's g/f was in the area and wanted to drop by before meeting up with her friends for dinner...
What a nice gal... Lucky JR... I guess it was right for him the give up the previous relationship to be with this gal...
I suggested to have dinner at NYDC, but the one at WheelLock Place was damn packed and we gave up waiting in the queue and settle for Sushi instead....

Think i ate too little... I'm so hungry now... How i wish i have somebody to cook for me now... Any takers??? Whahaha

Think once i dozed off to dreamland, i won't feel hungry anymore...

As for the FFBL match...Yup we won!!!! so it's been 3 wins since the opening defeat by last year champions....Let's just hope the team can keep up the good work!!!!

Company Gathering at some ulu place near sembawang beach

Wah... all the people there are drinking freak!!!!!!!!!! drink and drink.... i think next time, we just skip the food, just make sure we have enough barrels of beer and enough cases of wine instead!!!!! wahahahahaha
The BBQ food was really nice, had lots of pork chop, satays and sambal sting ray....
The atmosphere was not bad either, with the stait of johor just beside us....
Pity that not all of the people from REL could make it to the gathering, i think it will be even more fun!!!
Looking forward to next year promtional treat i guess...

Congrats to Jonny, Esther, Pee Ya , Irene and other that i can't remember, whom all got promoted!!!! thanks for the meal...

After all the drinks... feeling a bit tipsy.... My brother wanted to catch the movie ,Madagascar
I think i can still make it true the whole movie, and i did!!!! Sorry JL....i'm strong!!! Hahahahaha
It's a really funny movie, although it doesn't have any logic...it's just pure entertainment!!!
Watching the Alex the Lion in action, Marty the Zebra, yearning to return to the Wild, Melman the giraffe that is always sick, and Gloria the Hippo, who represent the new age woman among the four... The most funny characters must be the penguins.... How they hijack the ship, brought to the Antrantica, only to find the place totally sucks!!!! Hahahahaha

I just love cartoons.... what is it with people who give me the "will you grow up" look when i mentioned that i keep track of certain cartoons... What's wrong with a young adult like me watching cartoon.... I enjoy watching cartoons!!!! So the rest of those people who think i'm childish watching cartoons, you can keep your thoughts or opinions to yourself!!!

And, had a late night chat with my good friend, LL, i just hope you figure out whatever you need to figure out....
Avoiding the problem doesn't solve anything... Yes, i sound naggy.... but i only say all this cause you are my best friend!!!

Good night!!!!

Liverpool won the European Champions League Cup...

WTF!!!! How could this even happpen? What happened to AC Milan???? They were up 3 - 0 just before half time!!!!
How in the world did Liverpool came back with 3 goals and tied the match, still undecided after extra time! And with Jerzy Dudek doing the wobbly legs stunt to deny Shevchenko during the penalty shoot out....

ARGHHHHHH..... I guess Yap is a happy man when he learn about the results....certainly something wonderful for him to cheer about his forsolondunderachieving liverpool....wahahahaha...

Oh not for getting JR, the die hard liverpool fan too.... I guess even a dog will get it's lucky day...

Hangover....slept till 11am....sun is really shining on my butt....everything seems so unreal....luckily, i took the day off from work....if not, i won't know how i'm gonna coped at work...

Nothing much....just when to town to collect my altered jeans (no more super loose, gonna slide down my butt jeans anymore)
went shopping, brought a couple of t-shirts....with rather "special" wordings....I LIKE!!!!

tired....

Why do people can't forget??? The people i'm referring to are a some friends of mine. Why are they even doing things that they are not suppose to do? When both of them are happily (i think) attached with somebody else??? Don't they know that what they are doing or even trying to do....could end up getting 4 people hurt??? Is it worth it??? I ask myself.... I guess i can't give a answer, because such thing never happen to me before. But if you are with somebody, at least don't do anything behind their back... it's wrong... no doubt about it... Saying that you are confuse or it's just the alcohol, doesn't give you any right to even try such things...

I believe there is not absolute right or wrong about the things that you want to do, but you must be able to bear the consenqences of your actions....

Like my dad always tells me, Think before you do anything!!! Don't end up regretting what you did!!!

Pity, i 领悟 all this too late, thus i'm now struggling at both my job and studies...

That's life i guess....you only learn when you make mistakes...

Happy Birthday Kent

Tonight is Kent's 26th birthday and as usual he is celebrating at zouk again. The crowd started to come in only after 11 plus. Kinda feel very out of place with all the 19, 20 yrs old around me... And those that came with him are his younger colleagues, who are taking this chance to make him drink and drink...
Just like last year, by around 12 plus, he is feeling drunk and i had to accompany him out of the club to get a breather...
And it is there,i see first-hand how being drunk can entitled u to some sort of handy-panky... how you can just throw any form of inhibitions out of the window and end up hugging or doing stuff that you shouldn't be doing. Of course, i'm not refering to myself, i admit i drink a lot too (lots of vodka ribena), but i was just "high". Wow, 酒后真的会乱性吧!!! It's either people these days are getting more and more liberal, or i'm damn conservative.....hahaha

the atmosphere was starting heating when i left at around 1:45am... I had to leave, because i want to catch the final match of the Champion league between Liverpool and AC Milan...

Been a long while, since i had such late nights....hahaha...

And sorry to hear that you lost your stuff, Jianrong.... Hope some kind soul at least give you back your IC, or something!!!

Stop here now, the match is commencing now!!!!

I'm sick...

I'm down with a flu, or something i guess...
when i woke up this morning, i was aching all over, and i'm left with only the left side of my nose to breathe...
Wah....so uncomfortable....too much late nights, really taking the toll on me, looks like i'm getting old...

Still i got to drag myself of my bed, into shower, and off to work...got to save some money and see the company doctor instead! Wait if i go to see a doctor outside and get a MC, people will start to say stuff behind the back...
I really wonder if they have anything to gain by back stabbing people??? Or is it just the thrill or joy if doing such stuff that excite them??? Anyway, i don't think i'm that sick enough to get a MC lah... Just felt very very tired. I guess i just need to be more careful in the stuff that i do today.

Finally got my almost full collection of Stephen Chow's movies...Thanks to GF for bring it back for it...Think i'll have a good time watching all of Stephen Chow's classics....

Nowadays less and less people come for the weekly basketball session near my block... No more challenge... but it's good to just purely sweat everything out... and mix around with the uncles... Haha

Getting sleepy after eating the medicine.... but i thought the nurse said they are all non-drowsy one????
Bluff people one....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

I chose to forget, I want to forget and Yes, i mind!!!

Weird title for my entry?? but i think it's the only right that say this again.
It's meant for anybody who can grasp the meaning of it...

I had a wonderful time last night, lazing around at home with the company of my dad, mum and brother. it's been a long time since everybody is present for dinner. (my family rule! Everyone must sit at the dining table for dinner) Yes, i'm a very homely person. Although my mum can be nagging at me or my brother all the time, but we are pretty much immune to it and just treat it as though she's singing her heart out... I hope that my new SO will be able to be like me and spend sometime with my family... Talked to my mum, about how and what she actually did, in certain ways, added pressure to my past relationship.

Nothing much to grumble about...it's just a causal sunday...

Yeah, take care of yourself, Janice...

Vesak Day....

Today is Vesak Day. Also a public holiday, which means i don't have to go to work, althought half the people in singapore also don't work on Sun. It's just one of the lucky long weekend i have, since i switch to the sunday swing shift system.

Just couldn't climbed out of bed, last night warcraft session with my brother. Been so long since i played that game, and honestly i suck at it now... i can't even win my brother!!! And with the practise he is getting (lazing around at home all the time)better and better... I am so envious of him. At least he still can't win me in basaketball! I still have i can haolian to him... hahaha

Woke up at 10am after the non-stop nagging by my mum, who insist that i wake up to eat the vegetarian bee hoon she had brought. I really hate it!!! I'm like going 25 year old, and i'm still treated like a kid by her. Yeah, people will scold me and say that i'm 生在福中不知福...where to find a mum so good??? who get breakfast for her son so early in the morning!!! you are such an ungrateful brat!!!

But, But...if i'm hungry, i can go get my own breakfast...i have no problem with that! If i don't feel like getting breakfast, then i just wait to noon time and get brunch altogther... i don't see what's the fuss is about.

Anyway i appreciate what you have done! Mum...

Up so early, i read the morning papers, nothing much beside Asernal clinching the FA Cup!!! Surf the net, cleared some annoying emails...

Since i'm going to be meeting up my poly classmates for dinner at the Herren Marche @ 5pm, i decided that it's time i bring that pair of over-sized Levi's jean i got at a really cheap price and get it alter before it just slide of my hip one day, it's like 2 inch extra on the side, and with me slimming down during these 2 months... better to get it done!!! So i went to Far East Shopping Centre, don't really like to go there. But no choice, after checking out some forums online, the two place that does prety neat job in altering jeans is either at FESC or QWSC(queensway shopping centre). Going to QWSC alone is so far, so FESC is the best option. Got there, walked around looking for a decent looking shop, found 1 and was told to collect it next week. (keeping my finger cross, hope they can do a good job... Cos that jean happened to be in my design and cutting)

After settling the jeans issue, i still left with an hour++ till i meet up with the guys. Feeling hungary, i went to the Mac at Shaw House Shopping Centre, grab a burger and did some net surfing to kill time.

Around 4.45pm, i start to make my way to Herren, along the way...so many pretty faces all over the streets...been a while since i actually strolled so leisurely... missing all the views. Hahaha...

Got to Herren at 5pm, but as expected none of the guys are there yet! What the hell is wrong with people this day? Why can't they be punctual? Is it really that difficult??? I hate people who are late!! But i guess there's nothing i can do either beside swearing at them in my mind. Wahahaha

Around 30 minutes later, all the guys arrived and we started our feasting... I had a beer, a pork chop, a bowl of vegie and finally the ice-cream dessert!!! Updated each other while we are eating, moaned that school is gonna start in a week time...Jeffery got a new job, in a company that service Fujistu laptops!!! Wow!! Now i know who to look for if i want to get Fujistu lappie.

We left marche at about 7pm and head towards Wisma as Jeffery wanted to get a pair of leather shoes at Bettle Bug, the sale gal is really pretty...hahaha

Got his shoes, we just went our separate ways...

Rest of the night was spent surfing, clearing my unusually messy table, waiting for a friend to chat online... Boring...

So tired... thinking i'm getting old...wahahaha

As promised i will now continue the second part,
I got home around 2 plus, took a bath and straight away i'm on my bed...off to meet miss zhou!!! lol
I sort of lost track of whatever is going on in the house, until 7 plus, my brother knock on my room's door to wake me up to have dinner... Fish porridge was served for dinner with beancurd....

My plan for the night was to head on down to CHIMJES to catch the FA Cup final between Asernal and Man U, but as i was tired and lazy to change into something decent to head on down to town area, i opt for the next available option, which was to go the ex Yishun Seafood compound and catch the 'Live' match there instead...

we got there around 9.30 and was really lucky to find a half table available, the other half were occupied ny two uncles drinking beer... i got to see first-hand how the two uncles actually flirted (hmm..can i use that word) with the 啤酒 mei... Aiyoh, so old like still must give the gal such a different time....
Just made some small talk with them...about the soon to be broadcast match, about NS...blah blah
Ordered lot of food, rojak...BBQ chicken wings, oyster egg...and lot of tea...and lemon tea for my brother...

At 10pm, the match commenced!!! Man Utd was taking the game to Asernal, and was very unlucky to not get anything from all their attacks. Alas the match ended in a draw by full-time, and also a draw after 30 minutes of extra-time...
Everything was to be decided by penalty kick....
Paul Scholes's shot was SAVED by Lensman and Asernal won the FA Cup...Leaving Man Utd third in the Perimership with no silverware of any kind. In short, this is a distasteous season for them!!! (p/s: i'm not a fan of either team)

By the time everything ended and walking home with my bro, we got back at around 2 plus in the morning...

Took a shower... And i played Warcraft with my brother till.....i can't remember the time...and just dozed off in bed.

Life is good...

With barely 3 hrs of sleep, i woke up from the cold hard floor in one of TK's new room. I'm a early bird! I hate to be queuingand rushing with people for the toilet, especially early in the morning. So i chose to woke up at 5.15am. TK was already up, i think he is more nervous then me. Who am i kidding? Of cos, he is....erm...no, he SHOULD be!!! It's a day where nothing is supposed to go wrong!!! Didn't know what he had to do waking up so early. I only know that all the stuff that he is required to do is instructed by the elders...

As time passes by, more of the 'brothers' turn up, JL also got ready. MT, KK and 医生 along with another two of TK's friends and TK's brother. Flumbled with all sort of stuff, we finally set off to the bride's place at 7am. KK, aka finance minister of the day, handle all the ang pows, and 医生, aka time keeper of the day, who will be in hand to make sure we do know miss the right 时程.

When we reached the bride's place...as expected, the bride's 'sister' changed and added additional lock to the main door. Well, the games/test begins. TK was to answer a series of questions set by his bride and each wrong question will set him back by 8 bucks...the questions range from from the bride palm size (how do you measure one's palm size??), what she likes, what TK did wrong on their first date (details i shall not reveil, hahahaha) etc....

But that's not all... the 'sisters' dished out a plate of frog legs...appranently, TK doesn't take frog legs... so as 'brother' we help him finish some and dump the rest into the rubbish chute..LOL Next, the 'sisters' wants us 'brothers' to get in touch with our feminine side. They gave us a bottle of nail paint and they expect to see exactly 45 paint nails.....which for TK's sake, we did it, Poor MT was the only one with fully painted nails....

After all this the 'sisters' finally are ready to open the main door, but they had 'forgotten' where the keys are.... But after much persuarion and bargainin by the finance minister, KK. The 'sisters' relented and open the main door...
Once inside, we still have the bedroom door to deal with... TK was ask to declared his love in various language and to sing a song...proving his undying love for the bride. ( that is so SWEET) And with the last ang bao stuffed under and through the bedroom door, the door finally opened and TK went in to get his bride!!!!

Till here, the most important thing has been accomplished!!! Rest of the day was very standard SOP stuff, shuttling between the TK's family house in bukit batok for the tea ceremony, took some photo at Seletar Resvoir, back to TK's place and back to the bride's place for another round of tea ceremony. And everything is done!!!!

I wish all the best to TK and his wife, ML and have a great honeymoon @ Australia

I'm so tired... i wonder how my day will be like if i got married one day...when everything be as fun, (erm, don't think i shuld use fun here, but can't think of anything else) hectic??? But if you get to spend the rest of your life with somebody you love, i think all this is worthwhile, after all, you only do all this once in your lifetime...

This super long post is only half done!!! Will updated and finish the second half later...

Today is my off-day. Feeling restless to do anything, wanted to wake up at 7am to go swim at the Yishun Safra Club, but even when the alarm clock went off, I still couldn’t wake up. So I just gave up the idea of going for a swim… Just one of my excuses….

Didn’t had anything to do, just lazied around and surf the internet for the whole morning. till my mum woke up and insisted that I accompany her to NTUC and have lunch with her. We just didn’t know what to eat. Probably both of us are totally sick and tired of the food Kopitiam has to offer. And since we didn’t know what to eat? We just settle for KFC, which happen to be one of her favorite. She had the OR fillet burger, while I had the Zinger burger. Just chatted with her what I was going to be doing today and tomorrow.

Today I’m caught Star Wars Episode III with JL at Causeway Point. The movie was really good!!! The visual effect was really great!! Light-saber fighting was at its best. And the show really tied up lot of loose ends. I really like the scenes where you can see the inner struggle that anakin skywalker have to deal with! How he felt so helpless when facing thing that he can't control!! Cool!!!

After the movie, we met up with FP for the Sakae Sushi Buffet. Didn’t ate much, 3 head, only finished 20 plus plates…pathetic… Maybe the three of us just have small stomach, so we could only eat so little. Hahahaha But I really had a good time chatting with them and having sushi.

Good new!!! Chartered finally pass the Stupid TS audit… So no more stupid last minutes faking about everything. Which I feel it’s a joke. But as what everybody told me, it’s the same everywhere. It doesn’t matter!!! Audit is audit!!!

After dinner, the three of us slowly walk to TK’s place where JL and me is going to be spending the night there! Why? Because, tomorrow we are going to be one of his “brother” for his wedding!!! Whole new experience for me!!! Anyway, when we got there, TK’s brother, Stanley, was with him. We chatted, look through his photo album. Nice album by the way!!! Wonder if next time, mine will be as nice as his???

Next JL and me left for FP’s place which was just couple of stone throw (LOL) away. We just had red wine. Correction!! JL and me had a few glass of red wine while FP just took a few sip!!! Why like that one!!! Tonight seems to be the night where I had the most amount of red wine ever!!! Felt really shiok…maybe I should be doing this more often!!! Think I got a bit tipsy, but not drunk ☺

While drinking away, I got to look at FP’s wedding album, which was just a nice as TK’s. I’m so envious… even though I’m the kind of guy who shuns taking photographs. Maybe when I find the right gal, I will just throw my hesitation away and just into the studio with her and get snappy away… Hahaha

Talk about all the lousy, the funny, the sad, and crazy stuff in life with them. Maybe it’s just the alcohol, or maybe I just want to be heard… glad to have friends like them!!

By the time JL and me got back to TK’s place, it’s like near 2am already. Quickly washed up and get some sleep for TK’s BIG day tomorrow, or should I say today??

Ever been hit on by a gal?

No, I don’t mean getting hit or slapped by a gal for no apparent reason. It’s more of a gal making some form of small talk or flirting with you. At least that how I felt when this new gal talked to me yesterday while I was waiting to collect a certain lot. It is possible that I’m thinking too much too! Such things never happened to me before, so I really don’t know…

She just hinted that she comes over to Singapore very often, even on her off-days; ask if I’m interested to meet up (She isn’t local). Even when I told her that it’s quite unlikely that we could meet up. She even ask me for my number (which I didn’t gave). She asked if I had a g/f, and when I told her I just came out of a relationship, she comment that, “Like me, single-hood is good also mah!!!” I was like…erm…erm!!!

Either I’m thinking too much (a tendency that I have all the time), or I should have asked her for a number or something. Ha ha ha ha…

Today we went out to Causeway Point for lunch in a LORRY, yes, your eyes are not playing trick on you. A LORRY!!! Guess who drove it?? CW aka 医生, which is so funny… the only person sitting in front with CW is KP, as she’s pregnant, can’t expect her to be climbing up the back of the lorry. Along with EY, JL, Yap and me we sat on the back of the lorry. Along the way, it started pouring…DAMN, so we had no choice but to alight at the nearest bus stop and catch a bus to Causeway Point instead…what a joke!!!


Today is the last day, Ah Ben is gonna be in Singapore. He is returning to Sarawak with his wife and daughter. For how long? He didn’t say. Just mention that his wife doesn’t really like the lifestyle here, which I can’t disagree… Living in Singapore is really more hectic than expensive. As compared to living in Malaysia, life is definitely less expensive and less hectic. With a 1k plus salary, you can drive a car already… In Singapore, sure you can drive a car, in your dreams…

Star Wars is opening on the 19th of May….Finally!!!